Monday, August 22, 2011

:)

First off, I am SORRY for being so much away these days... just in a really interesting space these days... will share more, but have just felt really peaceful and quiet about alot these days.

There is just no huge hurry, like there used to be, to spout off some of my life's "ah ha" moments.
Not that I don't want to share, but just that it feels so good to have it be mine... my treasure.
Sometimes I feel like when I go spouting off new revelations or new roads to friends, I seem to somehow lose it...or it feels not so close to me anymore.

I have also started back at work, and it's been such an adjustment.
Trying to find time to share, and be present has been so interesting.

So please please forgive me if I have gotten behind on all my bloggy friends blog posts or have read but not commented.
Please know that's it's just me walking this season out, and time is so precious that I have been choosing my dear ones over the computer lately.

Was thinking of my beautiful friends when I saw this a couple days ago... this song spoke to my heart on so many levels, it's not even funny!

Wanted to share :)

Loves to you.. Amy




Here are the lyrics to this sweet song...
Blessings

We pray for blessings
We pray for peace
Comfort for family, protection while we sleep
We pray for healing, for prosperity
We pray for Your mighty hand to ease our suffering
All the while, You hear each spoken need
Yet love is way too much to give us lesser things

'Cause what if your blessings come through raindrops
What if Your healing comes through tears
What if a thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know You're near
What if trials of this life are Your mercies in disguise

We pray for wisdom
Your voice to hear
We cry in anger when we cannot feel You near
We doubt your goodness, we doubt your love
As if every promise from Your Word is not enough
All the while, You hear each desperate plea
As long as we have faith to believe

When friends betray us
When darkness seems to win
We know that pain reminds this heart
That this is not our home

What if my greatest disappointments
Or the aching of this life
Is the revealing of a greater thirst this world can't satisfy
What if trials of this life
The rain, the storms, the hardest nights
Are your mercies in disguise



Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Thankyou.. and practicing stillness

Good Morning, lovlies!

I just wanted to say a great big thankyou for your love and thoughtful responses to my work post and to the letter from God post....

I am so completely honored each time anybody stops by and actually takes the time to share a piece of their heart here....

Wanted to tell you I start work today... after my post a couple weeks ago, I started to work on a few things in my life.
Areas that I know I need to cultivate more just simply because I want the life that they bring.

I have started to practice taking some purposeful and intentional time to be still.
Just taking time to hang with God, and just be.
No Bible reading.. no talking.. just hanging with Him, and being present.
I guess some would call this meditation... but I just call it my Papa time.
The word meditation still creeps me out.. ha!
But I am starting to see the power of living IN the today.. how just taking time to breath and say His name for 5..maybe 10 minutes before the start of the day.

It has really brought me so much life and refreshing to do this.
Me and my lil' cup o' love (coffee) :)

Yesterday that is where that letter came from.

Not the actual stillness time, but in my day, I could so feel and hear His heart towards me..
Just resonating as I loved on my son, and readyed myself for going back to work.
Just knowing that all I have, and need is sufficient for today.
I don't have to worry about anything else....just knowing that He is with me, that I am enough, and that grace is here, always with me... in this moment.

So, today is the day... and I have to tell you I am excited to see what this day brings...

Just a wanted to share a bit more, and say thankyou!

Love and freedom and grace and stillness to you today....


Amy





Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Letters from Papa {Gifts}


Dear Amy,

Any gift I give you is for you. If you choose to share it, it is up to you.
But always remember it's firstly for you and your heart to enjoy.

Religion will pry it out of your hands, and demand your gift of you.
Religion will tell you that you HAVE to give your gift to them and to NOT give your gift is displeasing to Me.
Religion will obligate you and it will use you.
It will wrap your gift around you and tie it to your value and your worth.
Religion will keep you trapped inside a box with a ceiling, and tell you your gift is only good inside their box.
It will use shame, and the fear of Me to keep you locked inside their box.

This is not the Way of Love.

These are lies.

This is NOT My heart.

You are loved because You are mine.
You have value and worth because You are mine.
You are the daughter of Yaweh... the One True God.
Nothing you ever do or gift given is tied to that.
Nothing you ever do or gift given can change that.
It just is.
Period.

Be free to enjoy My gift to you, but never believe the lies of religion.
You sharing your gift out of your heart is NOT a pre-requisite of My love or of your value.
It's your gift to share.
I love you for you.


There is a treasure of joy I have hidden inside of the sharing, and that too is designed to bring life to your heart.
But the sharing has to come from the overflow of your enjoyment of this gift...the overflow of your heart.
It cannot be demanded or guilt'ed or fear'ed out of you.
Should you choose to share this gift, let it come from the pure enjoyment of it.

It was freely given to you with all My love.... so you freely love it, enjoy it, and be filled by it.

It's My love gift to you.

Share it if you want, but remember it is My gift to you first.
Enjoy!

Crazy in love with you,
Papa

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

What do I want to be when I grow up?

My new question these days is, What do I want to be when I grow up?

This is a bit of a personal post.... I am struggling a bit... if you have time, I would so love some feedback. oy.

Ok, so here goes.

Living in authentic me more and more and hearing my heart now, it's quite the question to ponder.

Before getting married and having kids, I started working really early in life. I have always wanted to have extra money... at 8 years old I worked a paper route, then worked as a carry out in a grocery story, then went to retail and worked at a clothing store, and then my last job I worked as a pharmacy technician for about 15 years.

My real desire tho was to one day find my life partner and become a mommy.

But even after my hub and I made the decision for me to be at home with our three lovies, I still found ways to generate extra income for us.
I have:
Cleaned houses and businesses
Sold tons of stuff on Ebay
Lead worship for all kinds of different events..retreats, conferences, etc...
Vocal stuff for different studio recordings.
Done a couple of photography gigs.

Just here and there stuff, but my honey had been the sole bread winner, and what I would bring in would be extra for clothes, vacation, date nights, etc...

But things have changed in the past few years.

A bit of background from our last few years:
My hub is not making the same money that he had once made.
He lost his job about 3 years ago, and now he needs my help even more. Being that he isn't on staff at a church anymore, and he is taking time away to heal and ask himself the same question that I am, finances are pretty tight.
Being in the ministry was his career. He made really good money doing it.
So now that we are in this season of taking time away from doing ministry and church staff stuff...maybe for forever...maybe not.

After he lost his job at the church, we stayed a float for about 6 months, but eventually had to file bankruptcy because of the drastic drop in income after my hub lost his job.
A crazy HUGE miracle has happened with that in that we have had the crazy privilege of living in our home for the past 2 years mortgage free.
Still no word from the bank, and we are keeping as quiet as can be so as to not draw attention..lol!

Anywho, all of that to say the momma has to go back to work.
So I have been asking myself what the heck do I want to do with my life.

What. Do. I. Want. To. Do.

Last year I had the idea of becoming a teacher's aide.
Figured it would be a great schedule with my kiddles in school...work while they are in school and be off when they are off.
Great idea, I thought! :)

So, I tootled off and got my certification, and applied everywhere I could.
I ended up landing a job at my son's school.
Began in the lunchroom, and eventually a job position opened up in the special ed dept.
Then I began working as a assistant to everybody in the special ed dept, until finally a teachers aide position opened in the resource room.

What's really fun, is that I got to try on 3 jobs in the span of 5 months.

Number one job.... Lunchroom monitor.
Setting up the lunchroom, wiping down tables, mopping floors, opening up packages and drinks for little hands.

My rating after working that for 5 months... not something I enjoyed altogether.
Loved the sweet faces I got to see everyday and love on.
Hated the messes and manual labor.
Dreaded going after a bit.

Number 2 job.... Special Education Clerk and Assistant
Description: go to girl for appointments to be set up between parents, reg ed teachers, and specialists. answering phones; making copies; organizing files; computer processing and typing

My rating after working that for 4 months.... not something I enjoy AT all.
Very little people interaction...staring at a computer for hours...feast or famine work load.
Realized how much I am NOT a secretary type personality.
Positive was that I enjoyed the quiet space after working in job number 3... I will tell you more about that in a sec.

Number 3 job... Teachers Aide to Special Education Resource Room
Description: aiding the SPED teacher, teaching my own groups of children, following curriculum everyday, making more copies, more computer time, planning lessons

My rating after working that for 2 months.... " I feel like I am homeschooling my children again."
Gack!!
Ugh!!
Sigh.
I feel like I am going backwards... I had stepped away from teaching my own children because of major burn out...and now I am teaching AGAIN, except other people's children with intense needs.

3 jobs that I have decided are not for me.

Some observations about myself, and please tell me if I am being outrageous here...
I struggle intensely with having the same schedule everyday.
The clocking in and out...monday to friday and doing the same thing everyday, I feel sucks my soul right out of me.
I don't like teaching.
I am not gifted in teaching.
I am not a person that loves to be around other people's children all the time.
I find that I have a certain amount of "kid space", and when I worked at the school I felt I used it all up at the school, and when I got home, I didn't have any for my own kids.
I MADE myself have it, but it wasn't flowing at all.
I don't like making copies, setting up appointments or paper pushing AT ALL.
I have figured out that these are not jobs for authentic me.
I am wondering if I have a more artistic soul?
I feel very boxed in again.
ugh.

sigh.

I start back up at my clerk job and teachers aide job in 1 week.
I am dreading it....and am crying alot... I have to get myself pulled together here.

I am thankful for the provision, but I am dreading it, and have been asking God to help me with my perspective...that I would feel His grace in this next year of working.
I know that I can't do these jobs for forever without serious harm to my heart.
I know the amount of melt downs that will begin to happen.
I know I will be a not happy person, and eating will be harder and harder to stay away from.
I will long to numb my unhappiness.
The coping skills that I have shed, I know will be longing to be put back into motion.
The feelings I had, right after we started summer break were the same same feelings of overwhelmed, unhappy, melting down constantly, very overspent Amy that I wrote about in this post.

Back to what I want do to when I grow up...
I did have an " ah ha " moment the other day... after trying these jobs on, I have been asking myself what my desires are... What do I really really want to do? What do I really LOVE to do?

I have come to realize that I love having my home as a launching pad... the freedom to clean a house here and there, to do a photo shoot here and there, to post auctions on ebay, etc... basically to work from home.
I like the flexibility of being self employed... of having the option to go out and work in different places, with control over my schedule.
My heart is to be here for my kids, to volunteer, to be a part of their schools and lives as much as I can while I have them.
My girls go to a different school then my son...so my son gets to see me alot, but the involvement this year in their school is going to change alot because of my work schedule.
It's 30 hours a week, and when they are all in school.

My hub and I were talking and I shared these little peaks into my heart with him.
He shared with me that he hates that I am working so much outside the home, and misses me at home.
We went on to talk about music again....wondering if that is where we will end up.
I don't know.
We are actually going to be moving next year to a new state that we have dreamed of moving to for forever! So my thoughts are that I am thinking of working towards being self employed after we move from AZ.
That this year I work on really understanding photography more, or becoming more confident in the areas that I lack in as a photographer.
It honestly brings me a lot of hope to think like that... to see that this job, this year is temporary.
Because, in all honesty, I would rather clean houses, do photography here and there, post on ebay, etc... then go and work at the school.

On one hand, I am so grateful to have been able to try on these different jobs.
Like Julia Roberts in the movie, Runaway Bride, I am figuring out how I like my eggs ;)
I have tried them, tasted them and I don't like my eggs this way.

On the other hand, I want to be realistic and practical here too.
My family needs extra income from me right now. My hope and prayer is that in this next year, my hub will have a clearer direction as to what he wants to do when he grows up, and will have the confidence to step towards that area as well.
And I will work, and I will work the jobs in front of me to bring that income in.
I will hunker down, and I will do it.
But there is something inside me that so longs to do what I am created to do.
To use my giftings, and to work in the environment that I was made for.

I have been thinking on this, and going back to the school this year has put a HUGE flame under me to really find out what those areas are.
I am also realizing that I am going to have to be reaaaally purposeful to fill my heart and be creative. To choose those things that create life in me while I am in this kind of transitional space of working the school job this year.

So, I guess my question is to you...

Have you been here?

How did you work through all the voices to hear your heart in this whole arena of work?

Thankyou for any of your thoughts...

hugs. Amy